A Guide to Your Perfect Proposal

The location where you get engaged will always hold a special place in your heart, so make sure to choose somewhere fitting. Often, couples will have an emotional attachment to somewhere they've shared treasured memories before, e.g., where you had your first date or the location of your favourite getaway. If somewhere springs to mind as your 'special place,' a sentimental destination choice always suggests you've put a lot of thought into it.

If you'd like to choose somewhere new, there are many gorgeous backdrop options for getting down on one knee. One option that will never disappoint is the coast, offering a romantic and picturesque setting for any proposal. The natural beauty of a vast sandy beach adds an abundance of romantic ambience to your moment, especially at sunset when the sky is painted in beautiful orange and pink hues. The sound of waves crashing and a gentle breeze also create a calming environment, which is not only great for a romantic atmosphere but should also help calm your nerves! 

Whether you're abroad, have the beach on your doorstep, or decide to spend a weekend away on the Norfolk Coast (if you're in this area, you're in luck, as Norfolk proposal ideas are easy with so much coastline), there are beautiful beaches all over the world that would make the perfect proposal location. So, if you don't have one close by, get planning that trip!

While the beach is idyllic, other locations can be just as enchanting. A beautifully landscaped garden or park surrounded by flowers not only looks stunning but can also symbolise growth and new beginnings. If your partner is a history buff, proposing at a historical landmark or monument can make for a memorable and exciting moment. 

If you want the ultimate romantic proposal venue, opt for a night away at The Pigs. Spoil your partner with a spa hotel proposal with private hot tub suites, luxury in-room facilities, and private courtyards, and get down on one knee while toasting marshmallows on an open fire beneath the stars—dreamy!

However, not all proposals have to be elegant and sophisticated. If your partner loves adventure, why not pop the question during a fun excursion, such as a hot-air balloon ride or hiking trip? Wherever you choose, the key is to make it somewhere that reflects who you are as a couple and will mean a lot to your partner. 

Top tip: Remember to vet the location. Check the weather forecast if you're planning on doing it outside, or ensure no events are happening in the area that might affect your plans.

Choosing the right time to propose is important in creating the ultimate experience for your partner, but what is right will depend on your circumstances. Proposing on the anniversary of a significant date, such as your first date, the day you met, or the day you became a couple, adds an extra layer of sentiment to your special day. Special occasions such as birthdays or holidays can also add a layer of joy as they are already associated with celebration. 

However, many people prefer to mark a new special date for their engagement. The timing of your proposal will also depend on various factors, such as whether you've chosen to do it on holiday or want particular weather conditions. 

Another important factor to consider is the time of day you propose. Would you prefer to do it early, allowing you to spend the entire day basking in the joy of your new engagement, or would you rather cap off an already special day with your proposal? Sunrise can be a beautiful and symbolic time to propose, representing new beginnings and providing fantastic lighting for photos. However, it is weather-dependent and requires an early start.

Afternoon proposals allow more time to prepare and are ideal if you want to combine the proposal with an activity. However, evening remains the most popular proposal time, thanks to the romantic atmosphere created by sunset or low-light settings. Proposing in the evening can offer a relaxed and intimate feel, especially after a romantic dining experience or a cosy night in at home.

Overall, while the date will undoubtedly become significant, don't stress too much about when it should be. Focus first on choosing the perfect location and how you want to propose, then select the best time and date that aligns with your plans.

Also to consider is whether your proposal will be public or private. Public engagements often include family, friends, or even strangers. They can add an element of surprise and excitement as the event becomes a shared experience, and the celebration, applause, and well wishes from bystanders can create a celebratory atmosphere. Popular public engagements occur at concerts, public landmarks, or even a busy restaurant. 

On the other hand, private engagements focus on the couple, offering a more intimate and personal experience. Some people prefer privacy for such a significant moment as it allows them to express their emotions more freely without an audience. Good examples of a private proposal include at home, in a secluded nature spot, or on a romantic stroll.

By now, you should have a pretty good idea of who your partner is and where they fall on the extrovert scale. Consider whether they would prefer their special moment to be witnessed by others or if they would favour a more intimate setting with just the two of you. This is a very personal decision, so think carefully about what your partner would want.

Though you may be ready to commit to your partner, asking them the question, 'Will you marry me?' is a nerve-wracking task you must prepare for. Whether you rehearse a speech or want to speak straight from the heart, it will help if you have some idea of what you'd like to say to them.

Top tip - Consider why you want to marry them, how they make you feel, what you love about them, and what you wish your future together to be. 

Before you start speaking, decide how you want to position yourself. Getting down on one knee is a wonderful choice; it's a romantic gesture and signals to your partner what you're about to do. This way, they can take every moment in and cherish every word you say. 

Oh, and lastly, don't forget the ring!

In an age where everyone has a camera in their pocket, capturing special moments is a must to preserve and share special memories—and what could be more memorable than the day you get engaged?

Hiring a professional photographer is an excellent way to capture the moment beautifully and discreetly. If you want to preserve the entire event from start to finish, consider hiring a videographer. This way, you'll be able to watch and cherish every word and reaction for years to come.

A more budget-friendly option involves asking a trusted friend or family member to capture your engagement or, alternatively, setting up a hidden camera and recording it yourself; just make sure it doesn't get spotted and spoil the surprise! 

Whether you hire professionals, involve friends and family, or do it yourself, the key is to capture the moment clearly. After all, these memories will be cherished for a lifetime.

Once they say 'yes!', the fun begins. You will likely both feel very emotional in the moment, but as the surprise starts to wear off, you'll be excited for the future ahead and want to celebrate the beginning of a new chapter in your life.

Ensure you account for time after the proposal to savour the moment; sit down together and soak up the excitement, or take a nice long walk. You could also arrange to have a romantic meal together, whether at a fancy restaurant, a cosy cafe, or a picnic in a scenic space. This will allow you time to savour the moment as you dine. Extra touches like a champagne toast to the future will help to create another memorable and unique moment.

Alternatively, if your partner would love to involve their loved ones in the celebration, plan a surprise engagement party or arrange for everyone to wait nearby when you pop the question. This adds another element of surprise and shows your partner that you've thoughtfully created a moment that involves everything they love, and everyone. If loved ones are far away, video-calling them to share the news can also be a magical experience.

The celebrations don't have to end on the day you get engaged. Whisking your partner away on a post-engagement getaway can be a beautiful way to start your life as fiancés. Continue in your bubble and choose a luxury proposal experience in a romantic hotel, like The Pigs in Edgefield, which is famous locally as the ultimate couples retreat for a romantic getaway in Norfolk. 

If a short getaway isn't possible, consider celebrating with a spa day. This intimate and relaxing experience allows you to spend quality time together and unwind after the heightened emotions. 

Top tip - Whatever way you choose to celebrate, be sure to savour every moment. Even though the proposal wasn't a surprise for you, it's still a special occasion for both of you, and you deserve to enjoy it after all your effort.

Deciding to get married is a deeply personal and monumental event. By carefully planning each aspect—from the location to the celebration afterwards—you can create a proposal that is both unique and unforgettable. Whether you choose the serenity of a beach at sunset or the thrill of an adventure, capturing the moment and adding personal touches will make the experience truly special. Remember to enjoy every moment, as this marks the beginning of a beautiful journey together. Good luck!